Instant motivation & definitive self-steem. Nico Quindt

      Introduction

      For years I was ignoring. I heard people share their problems with me and I listened to them, believing that with the information I had I could help them. "I have self-esteem on the floor" was the phrase that I heard all the time. And for some absurd reason, I wrote a book to achieve everything you set your mind to, with 9 wonderful principles that at no time talked about self-esteem, and if it did, it was as brief as possible.

      I started working on the superacionmujer.com website that dealt with women's concerns throughout Latin America and Spain, and again and again, the main problem, the recurring theme was the same:

      —Tell me what happens to you? How can I help you?

      It was my way of greeting. The answer was always the same: "I have low self-esteem ..."

      Then I wrote two more books, one that talked about the awakening of consciousness and the optimization of time and the other about parent education.

      I continued meeting people, friends and friends who told me that their problem was lack of motivation and low self-esteem and I started to create a program of how putting intelligence to love and how to improve relationships, in addition to designing sales courses on internet and web design ...

      The question at this moment is more than obvious: Nicolás Quindt, are you stupid? The reality is that I didn't find an excuse in my mind why I haven't written yet, a book or program dedicated to self-esteem and motivation.

      Writing a book about self-esteem and motivation already represents a difficult task, writing a book whose title is “Instant motivation and definitive self-esteem” … What mess did I get into?

      The title sounds powerful, effective, convincing. Although I had no idea how I was going to write it ... but that's what this is about, that I trust in myself, in my mind, in everything I've learned and studied for over twenty years, since if I can't trust myself, I can't even talk about self-esteem, much less definitive self-esteem, that is why I have proposed the following: if I want to write about self-esteem I need to work on it and, to work on it, it must be definitive and that, in addition, can generate instantaneous energy levels. What is the use of not being able to motivate ourselves when we need it? That is why motivation must be achieved at any time that is required, in a snap of fingers. "The motivation is never lasting," they say, bathing either, so it is recommended to bathe daily ...

      The first thing that occurred to me was to try to understand the factors involved in demotivation, If I wanted to achieve a method to eradicate inconstancy and low self-esteem, I must first understand and experience them, implement the systems and check if they worked. Then I had the revelation that that was not enough, since a technique that could help me and only me, would not serve as a reference model for the whole huge group of people with low self-esteem, mainly because I don't have self-esteem come down and I will never have it.

      What should I do then? Take a thousand people of low self-esteem, try different techniques over and over again until you find a magic formula or method that collapses and rebuilds the mental structures and returns them to the initial state, such as when we were children and we thought we were all powerful, that everything could be achieved?

      No, that is not possible. That will not happen, neither in this book nor in any other. That has never happened in the history of mankind. Literary scams will continue to exist for the simple reason that 90% of humanity does not land their dreams, does not put concrete actions to achieve the objectives that are proposed or do not believe they can achieve what they want, so that kind of Books are almost always bestsellers, but only 10% of humanity are successful people ...

      How many of those magic books have you bought? I have a friend who buys online courses to earn money from home, when you read the sales letters of those methods, you cannot stop laughing, but he believes that one day you will find a course that will earn you in a click, a million dollars, two clicks: two million dollars ... has invested thousands of dollars in this type of course, but has not recovered even 1% of what he has spent.

      I am going to take the most difficult path, but the only one that gives definitive results.

      I will establish a complex method, because that is the way we can achieve instant motivation.

      How does someone manage to perform a difficult activity in an instant? There is only one way: practice for ten thousand hours, ten thousand hours make the teacher, is the time that the cerebellum requires to remember exactly the coordination of muscles, tendons and nerves determined to carry out a certain action, as well as the amount of force required, the necessary muscle tension and movements concrete to be carried out.

      A king walks through the park and sees the most beautiful bird he had ever seen in his life. He admires the beauty of that animal and realizes how happy he did just to see it. In a moment, the bird takes flight and disappears from the sight of the king. The king is sad, thinking about how to see him again and also how much he would like to see him every day. Then he returns to the castle and comes up with an idea: make a painting of the bird. Call the best painter in the kingdom and tell him his wish.

      — Of course, I know that bird — said the artist — it will take two years to finish that painting.

      It seemed to the king that two years was a long time, but he accepted. At six months, the king tired of waiting, went with some emissaries to the artist's house, knocked on his door and the painter attended him.

      —I want to know if my painting is finished.

      —I have told him two years, and that is how long it will take —the artist replied.

      The king returned angrily to his castle and waited. When a year and a half had passed, he again went to the painter's house.

      — It's been a year and a half, I want to see at least how the picture is looking.

      —I have told him two years. And there are only six months left, if you waited a year and a half, you can wait six more months.

      The king was furious.

      —Very well, I will come in six months, but if my painting is not ready by then, I will kill you.

      Six months passed, the king took his guards and was willing to bring the picture or the artist's head.

      —Where is my painting? — The king asked.

      — His painting was that of the bird that so beautiful, isn't it? — The painter said.

      —Yes — The king replied willing to give the order to be executed.

      The artist took out a blank canvas, took his brushes and his paintings and in less than two minutes, he painted the picture of the bird that the king loved so much. The work had been