Seasons of Grace. Ann Lewin

      Carrying prayer around

      When people talk about prayer, it often sounds like a specialized activity. There are many techniques and methods we can use. But as we grow in prayerfulness, we have to learn to take prayer out of the speciality range into general use, to learn how prayer can be a way of life.

      Paul said, ‘Pray without ceasing’ (1 Thessalonians 5.17). We might feel like responding with, ‘You must be joking – I’ve got far too much to do to be able to indulge in prayer all the time.’ And at one level that’s true. There are things we have to do which demand all our attention. I’m glad when people do pay attention to what they are doing. I wouldn’t thank my dentist, for example, if he did anything other than keep his mind on the job!

      There is an old saying in Latin, laborare est orare – to work is to pray. Doing what we have to do wholeheartedly is prayer. When our lives are offered to God, every part of our life is part of that offering.

      Brother Lawrence was a Carmelite monk in the seventeenth century. He was well known for his holiness and his awareness of the presence of God. He wasn’t a scholar or a choir monk, he worked in the kitchen amidst all the demands of a busy monastery. People often think of monasteries as places of calm – those who live in them know that it isn’t quite like that. Communities, like families, have their tensions. In his time monasteries were very busy places, a cross between a Travelodge and McDonalds, catering not just for those who lived there, but for visitors and pilgrims too.

      Brother Lawrence believed that it was important to relate all his life to God, work and prayer alike. He said that his method was simple: he would go to the times of prayer required by his monastery, then he would do his work, asking God to help him to stay in God’s presence, and do his work well. When he finished his work, he would examine himself as to how well he had done it. If well, he thanked God, if not, he asked pardon and, without being discouraged, continued to try to stay aware of God’s presence. ‘The time of business does not differ with me from the time of prayer, and in the noise and clutter of my kitchen, while several persons are at the same time calling for different things, I possess God in as great tranquillity as if I were on my knees at the Blessed Sacrament.’

      That is the challenge for us all, to learn to live our lives aware of God’s presence. Easier said than done! Brother Lawrence’s way of prayer is sometimes called ‘The practice of the presence of God’. If we are wondering how on earth we can do it, it is worth remembering that the word that we hear as a noun ‘practice’, is also a verb, ‘practise’.

      We have to establish the habit of remembering that there is a connection between God and ourselves wherever we are: walking around, relaxing with friends, shopping – now is the time we meet God. Two simple prayers are enough to carry around with us: ‘Thank God’, and ‘Lord, have mercy’. These are the responses we can make to all the circumstances of our lives, for God is concerned with the painful experiences and the hard questions just as much as with the joys and delights.

      And God is concerned with the chores too. We can, for example, transform our wait in the supermarket queue by using our imaginations about the people and the trolleys around us. The old man with a loaf and a tin of dog food: what is life like for him? Lord, have mercy on all who live alone. And thank God for the company of pets. The trolley loaded up with drink – is that a celebration, or an addiction? Which prayer do I use? And the mother with screaming children trying to put things she doesn’t want in the trolley – Lord, thank you for family life, and have mercy on parents tried beyond their limits by the demands of small children. The carer taking people with learning disabilities on their weekly shopping trip – Lord, have mercy on all who can’t join fully in the life around them, and thank God for all who care for them. This is not done in any judgemental way – looking at my own trolley will soon make me realize that I am in no superior position. Do I really need all that I have picked up, or was I seduced by the latest adverts? And did I go for the fairly traded goods, or the brands I really prefer? Lord, have mercy on me, and give me a thankful heart for all the blessings I enjoy.