The Korean Mind. Boye Lafayette De Mente
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T H E K O R E A N M I N D
T H E K O R E A N M I N D
UNDERSTANDING CONTEMPORARY
KOREAN CULTURE
B O Y É L A F A Y E T T E D E M E N T E
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Copyright © 1998, 2012 Boyé Lafayette De Mente
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De Mente, Boye.
The Korean mind : understanding contemporary Korean culture / Boye Lafayette De Mente.
p. cm.
Includes bibliographical references.
Summary: “Koreans have a unique character and personality that sets them apart from all other Asians. And although Korean attitudes and behavior may be influenced by the modern world, the Korean mindset is still very much shaped by ancient culture and traditions. In The Korean Mind, Boye Lafayette De Mente explores the meanings and cultural context of the most important “code words” of the Korean language, terms whose significance goes well beyond their literal definitions. The reader is given insights into the character and personality of the Korean people, providing bridges for communicating and interacting with them.”--Publisher’s description.
ISBN: 978-1-4629-0770-0 (ebook)
1. Korea--Civilization. 2. Korean language--Terms and phrases. I. Title.
DS904.D425 2012
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Contents
Guide to Key Cultural Themes | x |
Acknowledgments | xi |
Understanding and Interacting with Koreans | xii |
Aboji 아보지 The “Father” Culture | 1 |
Achom 앛옴 Massaging Male Egos | 3 |
Adul 아둘 The “Son” Culture | 5 |
Aeyok 애욕 Eroticism in Korean Life | 7 |
Amhuk Ki 암훅기 The Dark Period | 8 |
Anae 안애 Wives: The Inside People | 11 |
Anshim 안힘 Peace of Mind | 13 |
Anun Saram 안운살암 Someone You Know | 14 |
Arirang 알일앙 The Korean Soul Song | 16 |
Chaebol 재벌 The Industrial Colossi | 17 |