Raising Cooperative Kids. Marion S. Forgatch

Raising Cooperative Kids - Marion S. Forgatch


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      Praise for Raising Cooperative Kids

      “An excellent book that brings the best of longstanding, proven, and highly effective parenting practices to the modern age. This book is a must for every parent and every professional who works with children.” —Jeffrey Bernstein, PhD, author of 10 Days to a Less Defiant Child

      “This is a wonderful book with clear, easy-to-apply, and workable techniques based on both clinical experience and research. From defining and setting goals to the critical importance of family play, Raising Cooperative Kids provides a concise and practical blueprint for parents who want to enjoy their kids.” —Thomas W. Phelan, PhD, author of 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2–12

      “This book is a special gift to accomplish one of the hardest and most rewarding jobs we will face in our lifetime: raising children. Marion and Jerry share their years of experience studying human behavior and give simple, yet powerful, tools to help parents. You will see yourself in some of the chapters, sometimes doing the right thing, sometimes doing the wrong thing. Enjoy the gift, have fun practicing and take comfort that you're doing the best you can.” —Jim Wotring, senior deputy director, Department of Behavioral Health, Washington, DC

      “Marion and Jerry are the foremost experts on parenting in the world and their research, writing, and professional work have helped millions of families. The information in this book is based on rigorous scientific study. As a parent, I trusted these principles in raising my own children. As a professor and clinician, I spread the word to clinicians in training in their work with families. If you are going to rely on one book to secure a better future for your children, this is the book to use.” —Thomas J. Dishion, PhD, professor in the Department of Psychology, Arizona State University, founder of “The Family Check-Up,” and author of Preventive Parenting with Love, Encouragement, and Limits: The Preschool Years

      “An excellent guide for parents who want to raise happy, well-adjusted children! Based on years of clinical and research experience, this user-friendly book emphasizes the importance of practicing skills and is filled with strategies and examples. I highly recommend Raising Cooperative Kids to parents, students-in-training, and therapists.” —Rex Forehand, PhD, author of Parenting the Strong-Willed Child

      “A practical, commonsense book that includes all the ingredients for a cooperative and happy family.” —Carolyn Webster Stratton, PhD, professor emeritus at the University of Washington, and founder of “The Incredible Years®”

      ”A rich guide for parents who want to optimize their child's development and positive socialization. The strategies in this book are practical, but, more importantly, they are presented in a way that acknowledges how difficult it can be for parents to change old ways. This is a ‘must read’ for parents and parents-to-be.” —Dr. Patricia Chamberlain, science director of the Oregon Social Learning Center, founder of Treatment Foster Care Oregon and KEEP, and author of Off Road Parenting: Practical Solutions for Difficult Behavior

      “A comprehensive, compassionate, and insightful book by two of the most preeminent clinical scholars in the field of family therapy. The text is easy to read and rich with realistic examples. Parents will find it a useful guide and clinicians will use it as both a reference and an important adjunct for parents receiving clinical services.” —Robert J. McMahon, PhD, professor and British Columbia Leadership Chair, director of the Institute for the Reduction of Youth Violence, Simon Fraser University Department of Psychology, and author of Helping the Noncompliant Child

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      This edition first published in 2017

      by Conari Press, an imprint of

      Red Wheel/Weiser, LLC

      With offices at:

      65 Parker Street, Suite 7

      Newburyport, MA 01950

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      Copyright © 2017 by Marion S. Forgatch, PhD, Gerald R. Patterson, PhD, and Tim Friend

      All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from Red Wheel/Weiser, LLC. Reviewers may quote brief passages.

      ISBN: 978-1-57324-690-3

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      Contents

       Introduction: Cooperation Makes It Happen

       Chapter 1: Imagine

       Chapter 2: Follow My Directions

       Chapter 3: Accentuate the Positive

       Chapter 4: Oceans of Emotions

       Chapter 5: I Walk the Line

       Chapter 6: Stop, Look, Listen

       Chapter 7: We Can Work It Out

       Chapter 8: Someone to Watch Over Me

       Chapter 9: Teach Your Children Well

       Chapter 10: United We Stand

       Chapter 11: We Are Family

       Appendix: Strategies and Resources for Raising Cooperative Kids

       Acknowledgments

       Introduction

      Cooperation Makes It Happen

      One of the greatest gifts parents can bestow on their children is a happy childhood. As family research psychologists with our own blended family of five grown-up children, Jerry and I have shared a lifelong passion to understand what a “happy childhood” means and what it takes to raise “well-adjusted” children. The simple answer is—good parenting. But what is that?

      After studying the good, the bad, and the


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