Pink Ribbon Stories: A Celebration of Life. Tammy Miller
KNOW that you will be well!
Is there anything you wish you knew before going through this? I wish I had known how sick I was going to be with the chemo.
Is there anything you wish your doctor would have told you? How painful the stomach flap removal was going to be.
Can you identify anything humorous that happened on this path to recovery? I learned to cover my bald head when it rained.
That was 11 years ago and I’m happy to say; God has brought me safely thru!
Judy is a 62 year old happily married for 42 years woman. Having been born and raised in Michigan, she has lived her entire life in the state. She loves spending time with her husband, her daughter, and son, and their family’s. Her special joy is her grandchildren: 19, 18, 3 and 8 months.
A Sprinkle of FUN from the Author…
Martha’s Way or My Way
Martha’s Way: Place a slice of apple in hardened brown sugar to soften it.
My Way: Brown sugar is supposed to be soft?
I Won’t Let Go
Dianne Crust
In 1987 my mother, Baba, was diagnosed with breast cancer; in 1996 my sister Terri was diagnosed with breast cancer; in 2003 my mother’s sister, (my favorite aunt) Patti was diagnosed with breast cancer, and in 2005 her daughter Karen was diagnosed with breast cancer. Through all their treatments, reconstructive surgeries and continued battles with cancer, my message to them was: “if I could fight this fight for you I would. I hate that you are going through this, and although there are days when you just want to give up…please keep fighting because I love you and can’t live without you”. Through the years, I’ve seen more family and friends face the struggles and hardships from this terrible disease. And I still have this overwhelming desire to let them know that they are very special to me, and I need them to fight this, because I can’t let go.
Then one day in April, I was driving along and Rascal Flatts song I Won’t Let Go came on the radio. I have a dear friend, Phyllis, who was just going through her chemo treatments at that time, and again I felt, “if I could fight this fight for you I would, but since I can’t, please know that I’m here and I’ll always be”. I’m sure there isn’t a caregiver, family member or friend who has a loved one facing this battle that doesn’t “feel” the words to this song deep in their hearts and souls. I had to pull over and have a good cry…I went right out and got the CD and gave it to Phyllis to let her know she is very special to me.
So, to my Mom, my sister Terri, my Aunt Patti, my cousin Karen, my sister Bev, my dear friends Tammy and Dana… and to you Phyllis…please know “I Won’t Let Go”.
Dianne lives in Boalsburg, PA with her best friend and husband of 36 years, John. She is blessed with two beautiful daughters, Shelli and Paula, and a very handsome son-in-law Ryan. Her greatest gifts are her two precious granddaughters, Princess Madelyn and Princess Lily with the “triple crown” expected in January 2012.
Running the Show
Allison Cummings
On June 15th 2010 at 2:47 pm, I received the call from my breast surgeon telling me that I had early stage-one breast cancer at the age of 39. Who has to worry about breast cancer at that age? I soon found out women 10-15 years younger than me worried about breast cancer. When my surgeon called, I was standing by my bedroom closet. When I hung up the phone, I called my family and then sat there crying my eyes out for about ten minutes.
I decided that while I have breast cancer, it would never have me. I would run the show and cancer would never dictate a moment of my life going forward. I have never asked “why me?” Why not me? It is not like I had a big neon sign over my head saying “no cancer allowed here”.
I do have a new “normal” since my diagnosis. I am still the same person but don’t let the little things get to me anymore. I don’t allow toxic people in my life. Fellow survivors had told me, that once you start telling friends about your diagnosis that you will quickly learn who your real friends are. I like to say that it quickly separated the men from the boys.
I have to constantly remind myself to slow down. I work out on a regular basis and I ate decently before diagnosis. Post diagnosis I work on becoming very attuned to my body and what are the best foods to fuel it. I read labels, I drink more water, and I pay attention to food and nutrition studies. I have added strength training to my workout regimen because it is important to keep my strength, balance, and bone density.
I wrote a book about my experience for my nephew who is three. It is very important to me that he knows how strong his auntie was in beating breast cancer. I want to show women that you can get through a breast cancer diagnosis and treatment and thrive.
To whom much is given, much is expected
Allison lives in Austin TX with her spoiled shih-tzu Shelby. She works with families going through crisis and you can reach her at http://www.facebook.com/alli3300.
A Sprinkle of FUN from the Author…
“I never married because there was no need. I have three pets at home who answer the same purpose as a husband. I have a dog that growls every morning, a parrot that swears all afternoon, and a cat that comes home late every night.”
-- Marie Corelli
A Pink Ribbon Story
Dedicated to
Sharon Dapp
Despite the fact that cancer hits you hard, and hits you suddenly, life must go on and this was Sharon Dapp’s main inspiration as she challenged herself to keep things as normal as possible in her life.
It was in August of 2005 when Sharon discovered she had breast cancer. And it was by no mishap. At the time, she was accompanying her daughter, Selena, for support to the Breast Health Center in Williamsport, Pennsylvania.
Previously, Selena had been screened for a lump in her breast, and was scheduled to have it removed. In the meantime, Sharon had a routine mammogram that revealed an abnormal mass in her right breast. Both women were scheduled for surgery the same day.
Fortunately, for Salena, hers turned out to be a benign cyst, whereas, Sharon’s biopsy was diagnosed with the beginning stages of cancer. She was only 49. Selena got to go home that day after her surgery, but Sharon did not. She remained for further testing and surgery was scheduled shortly afterwards to remove a large mass from Sharon’s breast. It looked like a “big splatter.” She was able to go home the same day as the scheduled surgery, and a few days later Sharon went back to the hospital for radiation treatments.
Throughout the remaining days, family and friends said she remained strong and calm. Sharon had to endure 50 radiation treatments, and she would go every day after work Monday through Friday for about 8 weeks.
Co-workers said she was exhausted but she wanted to still work everyday working at a small newspaper office as the office manager. “Yes I was here when she had breast cancer.... so sad, but she was determined to fight and be strong and that she was! , said Crystal Shrawder from Hughesville and one or her assistants. “She handled her treatments so very well, it was amazing!”
Although she was extremely tired, Sharon felt she needed to work as they were short on help as it was, and it made her feel needed. She had been employed with the company since she was 18.
On the last day of her radiation treatment, she and her best friend, Linda Neupauer, celebrated. Every year when her birthday comes around on March 8, Sharon celebrates being a survivor. “I beat it, and no chemo was needed” she said, and every year that goes by without detection is a blessing for her. “I regret I can’t give