Theory and Practice of Couples and Family Counseling. James Robert Bitter
And how many poor families will you be able to accept in your practice and still make a living yourself? Justice requires that you wrestle with these issues before you even see your first family.
Veracity is the implementation of truthfulness: It is intimately related to personal and professional integrity. It has only been recently that veracity has been included in major ethical texts (Corey et al., 2019). One reason for including veracity in the list of ethical principles is the increasing requirements of managed care. Managed care dictates not only the treatment people receive from medical doctors but also the services delivered to individuals and families for mental health problems. In the name of controlling health care costs, managed care companies limit the type and duration of services offered to clients. To remain on a preferred provider list, family practitioners must agree to abide by the parameters set by such companies. This means that family practitioners within a managed care system must wrestle with split loyalties. Being truthful, an essential part of informed consent, is essential for resolving professional conflict in the managed worlds of hospitals and community agencies.
These six common ethical principles do not exist independent of one another. A. Hill (2004) suggested that they are present in any ethical dilemma; the family practitioner, however, needs to assess which principles are most relevant to any given situation and how other principles might also be addressed. Deciding which ethical principle is most pertinent in any given situation can be a difficult task. The decision often depends on your in-the-moment interpretation of the ethical principles, consultation with other professionals, and guidance from your profession’s code(s) of ethics.
What would be an action that you would define as promoting the clients’ welfare in the case of the 14-year-old child with leukemia? In reviewing your profession’s codes of ethics, you find no statement that begins with “When counseling a family whose child has leukemia and whose religious beliefs do not support medical intervention, you must …” What you will find in codes of ethics are statements such as “The primary responsibility of counselors is to respect the dignity and promote the welfare of clients” (ACA, 2014, Standard A.1.a.) or the indication that “couple and family counselors do not engage in actions that violate the legal standards of their community and do not encourage client or others to engage in unlawful activities” (IAMFC, 2017, p. 4), or the indication that marriage and family therapists participate in activities that contribute to a better community and society (AAMFT, 2015).
So what can we glean from these statements that might help? The ACA Code of Ethics (ACA, 2014) makes beneficence the primary ethical responsibility. Okay, what action(s) serve(s) to promote the family’s welfare? Respecting their welfare may mean respecting their autonomy to make decisions on their own. Yet respecting autonomy may contribute to the parents ending up in court facing either jail time or the removal of their child from their custody. Whose welfare is served then?
The IAMFC Code of Ethics (IAMFC, 2017) asks you to ponder the legal standards of the community within which you practice. At issue here is the community’s definition of “child neglect” (probably a state statute). For example, the state of Wisconsin defines child neglect as follows:
Any person who is responsible for a child’s welfare who, through his or her action or failure to take action, for reasons other than poverty, negligently fails to provide any of the following [necessary care, food, clothing, medical care, shelter, education, or protection from exposure to drugs], so as to seriously endanger the physical, mental, or emotional health of the child, is guilty of neglect. (Wisconsin Penal Code, 2005, §948.21[2])
If you are practicing in Wisconsin, respecting the parents’ autonomy may contribute to the death of their child, a Class D felony. A similar statute exists in the state of Idaho. It appears that in both states the most relevant principle is beneficence, in particular the beneficence of a child.
This family example shows the constructivist nature of ethical decision-making when viewing problems through principle ethics. The words and intent of the codes, together with relevant legislation, all carry various meanings. In such cases, the local interpretation of ethical principles significantly influences a family practitioner’s actions.
Freeman and Francis (2006) noted one significant problem with principle ethics: They have been given relevance and authority separate from and prior to their actual use in ethical decision-making. Autonomy, for example, is important in any given case, because autonomy is valued as a principled guide to action. In theory, it supersedes localized interpretations and applications of ethical standards. To be sure, principle ethics in some cases can remind family practitioners to be sensitive to diverse cultures when local interpretations and laws are not (e.g., in supporting the welfare of sexual and gender minority clients). In some cases, however, the principles themselves may not be culturally sensitive (e.g., autonomy in relation to non-Western cultures), and the practitioner is left to adapt them to fit the needs of the culture, thereby challenging the very foundation on which principle ethics is based (DuBois, 2004).
The family case we have presented highlights the potential impact of religion on the application of the ethical principles. Other cultural influences include race, ethnicity, nationality, age, gender, sexual and affectional orientation, ability and disability, and poverty. DuBois (2004) suggested that ethical principles may have universal relevance, but the focus should be on how the specific principles are enacted within a given culture. That is, the question is not whether autonomy is a relevant principle in Sri Lanka; rather, it is how Sri Lankans respect autonomy.
Virtue Ethics
Whereas principle ethics focuses on actions and choices based on predetermined values (Corey et al., 2019), virtue ethics focuses on the character traits of individuals or the profession (Kleist & White, 1997). Principle ethics asks, “What shall be done?” Virtue ethics asks, “What kind of person shall the family practitioner be?” What do you think? Is it possible that your ethical behavior as an emergent family counselor or therapist is more about personal moral being than a mere understanding and application of a set of ethical principles?
There are multiple positions on virtue ethics just as there are on principle ethics. Jordon and Meara (1990) defined virtue as “nurtured habits grown mature in the context of a formative community and a shared set of purposes and assumptions” (p. 110). Virtue in this sense is not innate: It is learned. Although principle ethics can be taught, it is not as easy to teach integrity, courage, and humility. And if these are important virtues to have, how does one measure them? Virtue ethics involves “making ethical judgments based on the development and implementation of professional virtues associated with [professional] practice” (Bitter, 2014, p. 524). Advocates of virtue ethics argue that family practitioners should not merely seek the safety of ethical behavior, as in principle ethics, but should aspire to an ethical ideal. At the beginning of this chapter, we considered some of the virtues that might serve as ethical ideals in couples and family practice. Not only must we be individually and collectively clear about those characteristics, we must also be mindful of the virtue ethics reflected in the families we serve (Gamino & Ritter, 2009). Cohen and Cohen (1999) and Vasquez (1996) have long argued for ethical decision-making based on principle ethics but grounded in a foundation of virtue ethics. For Vasquez, virtue ethics can facilitate multicultural practice in the same way that boundary setting enhances flexibility.
For example, you are seeing a Native American family in counseling at a local agency that offers free counseling for those families with limited means. You have successfully guided the family to a place at which they would like to terminate the counseling relationship. At your final session, the family presents you with a blan ket that they have made together. To them, the blanket represents a thank you for the services provided. Typically great caution is suggested in all professional codes when considering accepting a gift or bartering for therapeutic services. Vasquez (1996) would suggest that the virtue of respect may contribute to understanding that the blanket is offered as a cultural means of expressing appreciation. Emphasis on the character of the individual and the profession provided by virtue ethics adds a sense of personal responsibility to the more external guidelines of principle ethics.
That said, virtue ethics has