Emotionally Naked. Anne Moss Rogers

Emotionally Naked - Anne Moss Rogers


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life-saving and supportive resources in the school and community.

      This book is also not meant to train you as an interventionist or a counselor. Enough is asked of you. Instead we hope to help you see, notice, and pick up on which students need intervention. Learning to say, “Tell me more,” and actively listen is a powerful first step to help a suicidal student open up. And even if you are not comfortable with that, you can simply look after your students and make the school social worker or counselor aware of your concerns. Mastering the art of listening and empathically connecting to people is underrated in today's busy culture and we are often unaware of how important even the smallest gestures and acts of kindness mean to another human being. One empathetic adult is all it takes to have a positive impact on a student and change the trajectory of their life. Throughout this book we want you to ask yourself, “What kind of educator do I want to be?”

      1 1. Kann, L., McManus, T., Harris, W.A., Shanklin, S.L., Flint, K.H., Queen, B., Lowry, R., Chyen, D., Whittle, L., Thornton, J., Lim, C., Bradford, D., Yamakawa, Y., Leon, M., Brener, N., Ethier, K. (2018) Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance — United States, 2017. MMWR Surveillance Summaries 67(8):1–114.

      2 2. Coombs et al., 1992; Robins, Gassner, Kayes, Wilkinson, Murphy, 1959, p. 9. https://www.qprinstitute.com/uploads/QPR%20Theory%20Paper.pdf

      “In order to achieve, you have to put wellness first.”

       Jennifer Hamilton (She/Her/Hers), School Psychologist, Director of Psychology andCounseling at Noble and Greenough, Independent School, Dedham, Massachusetts

      When the digital age moved in, that which we thought would connect us more instead pushed us apart in many ways. It was during the early 2000s that we began to see an increase in student mental health problems. Poor sleep hygiene, the result of increased screen time and 24/7 Internet access via mobile phones, exacerbated those issues because youth sacrificed precious slumber time for late-night chats and video watching. As the digital revolution has grown, each generation has less face time with friends than the one before, which means youth are getting fewer opportunities to learn, fail, and problem solve. Add to that the fact that extended family often lives out of town and community programs and interactions have a reduced role in our lives, further fracturing the community of connection and support. Humans crave contact with each other, and lack of it can leave teenagers feeling anxious, small, insignificant, and devoid of opportunities to develop important life skills.

      Barriers to Mental Health Treatment for Teens

       Neither teens nor the adults who are close to them recognize the symptoms of their treatable illness.

       Fear of what treatment might involve.

       Belief that nothing can help.

       They don't see help-seeking as a sign of strength.

       They are embarrassed.

       Belief that adults won't understand.

       Limited access to resources (money, insurance, transportation, healthcare).

      Source: From the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, More Than Sad for Parents.


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