Oscar Wilde: The Complete Works. Knowledge house
refuse all our serious requests, and gratify every one of our whims. He should encourage us to have caprices, and forbid us to have missions. He should always say much more than he means, and always mean much more than he says.
lady hunstanton
But how could he do both, dear?
mrs. allonby
He should never run down other pretty women. That would show he had no taste, or make one suspect that he had too much. No; he should be nice about them all, but say that somehow they don’t attract him.
lady stutfield
Yes, that is always very, very pleasant to hear about other women.
mrs. allonby
If we ask him a question about anything, he should give us an answer all about ourselves. ·54· He should invariably praise us for whatever qualities he knows we haven’t got. But he should be pitiless, quite pitiless, in reproaching us for the virtues that we have never dreamed of possessing. He should never believe that we know the use of useful things. That would be unforgiveable. But he should shower on us everything we don’t want.
lady caroline
As far as I can see, he is to do nothing but pay bills and compliments.
mrs. allonby
He should persistently compromise us in public, and treat us with absolute respect when we are alone. And yet he should be always ready to have a perfectly terrible scene, whenever we want one, and to become miserable, absolutely miserable, at a moment’s notice, and to overwhelm us with just reproaches in less than twenty minutes, and to be positively violent at the end of half an hour, and to leave us for ever at a quarter to eight, when we have to go and dress for dinner. And when, after that, one has seen him for really the last time, and he has refused to take back the little things he has given one, and promised never to communicate with one again, or to write one any foolish letters, he should be perfectly broken-hearted, and telegraph to one all day long, and send one little notes every half-hour by a private hansom, and dine quite alone at the club, so that every one ·55· should know how unhappy he was. And after a whole dreadful week, during which one has gone about everywhere with one’s husband, just to show how absolutely lonely one was, he may be given a third last parting, in the evening, and then, if his conduct has been quite irreproachable, and one has behaved really badly to him, he should be allowed to admit that he has been entirely in the wrong, and when he has admitted that, it becomes a woman’s duty to forgive, and one can do it all over again from the beginning, with variations.
lady hunstanton
How clever you are, my dear! You never mean a single word you say.
lady stutfield
Thank you, thank you. It has been quite, quite entrancing. I must try and remember it all. There are such a number of details that are so very, very important.
lady caroline
But you have not told us yet what the reward of the Ideal Man is to be.
mrs. allonby
His reward? Oh, infinite expectation. That is quite enough for him.
·56· lady stutfield
But men are so terribly, terribly exacting, are they not?
mrs. allonby
That makes no matter. One should never surrender.
lady stutfield
Not even to the Ideal Man?
mrs. allonby
Certainly not to him. Unless, of course, one wants to grow tired of him.
lady stutfield
Oh! … yes. I see that. It is very, very helpful. Do you think, Mrs. Allonby, I shall ever meet the Ideal Man? Or are there more than one?
mrs. allonby
There are just four in London, Lady Stutfield.
lady hunstanton
Oh, my dear!
mrs. allonby [Going over to her.]
What has happened? Do tell me.
·57· lady hunstanton [in a low voice]
I had completely forgotten that the American young lady has been in the room all the time. I am afraid some of this clever talk may have shocked her a little.
mrs. allonby
Ah, that will do her so much good!
lady hunstanton
Let us hope she didn’t understand much. I think I had better go over and talk to her. [Rises and goes across to Hester Worsley.] Well, dear Miss Worsley. [Sitting down beside her.] How quiet you have been in your nice little corner all this time! I suppose you have been reading a book? There are so many books here in the library.
hester
No, I have been listening to the conversation.
lady hunstanton
You mustn’t believe everything that was said, you know, dear.
hester
I didn’t believe any of it.
·58· lady hunstanton
That is quite right, dear.
hester
[Continuing.] I couldn’t believe that any women could really hold such views of life as I have heard to-night from some of your guests. [An awkward pause.]
lady hunstanton
I hear you have such pleasant society in America. Quite like our own in places, my son wrote to me.
hester
There are cliques in America as elsewhere, Lady Hunstanton. But true American society consists simply of all the good women and good men we have in our country.
lady hunstanton
What a sensible system, and I dare say quite pleasant too. I am afraid in England we have too many artificial social barriers. We don’t see as much as we should of the middle and lower classes.
hester
In America we have no lower classes.
·59· lady hunstanton
Really? What a very strange arrangement!
mrs. allonby
What is that dreadful girl talking about?
lady stutfield
She is painfully natural, is she not?
lady caroline
There are a great many things you haven’t got in America, I am told, Miss Worsley. They say you have no ruins, and no curiosities.
mrs. allonby
[To Lady Stutfield.] What nonsense! They have their mothers and their manners.
hester
The English aristocracy supply us with our curiosities, Lady Caroline. They are sent over to us every summer, regularly, in the steamers, and propose to us the day after they land. As for ruins, we are trying to build up something that will last longer than brick or stone. [Gets up to take her fan from table.]
lady hunstanton
What is that, dear? Ah, yes, an iron Exhibition, is it not, at that place that has the curious name?
·60· hester
[Standing by table.] We are trying to build up life, Lady Hunstanton, on a better, truer, purer basis than life rests on here. This sounds strange to you all, no doubt. How could it sound other than strange? You