The Human Mind. Marion Julius
Making them not want to do anything fear can drive some to insanity because they are so worried about what's going on no one wants to live like that. Having fears isn't a pleasant thing to experience the worst of all is that people have to live in fear sometimes being fearful of someone or something, fear can drive a person to do such dark and sad things we see those who live in fear the fear they'll never heal or recover, the fear of losing someone they love, the fear of not getting what they want, the fear of getting rejected fear cause panic and when one panics they can become worried, stressed and cause a panic attacks. When you have a fear of something or someone the way to get over it is to take on a challenge which can help you overcome the fear for an example if you fear heights maybe do a tour somewhere where you can go with guided tour guides and a group of people to go up and face your fear of heights, maybe your fear is something else try find something a place or thing or maybe even a person and use that as way to get over it so you can move on.
There are always going to be obstacles which get in our way and so we just have to get tougher, stronger and smarter having the courage to move them out of our ways if they are hard then to continue to push or even kick or hit and get them to go away your never going to be where you want to be if they're in your way so your choices are move them and be a success or don't do anything and struggle not be happy and don't get the happiness and success that you crave.
Be confident and try overcome obstacles that stand in your way.
Face your fears and be brave to deal with it.
Chapter 20: Memories
Memories
We have memories stored in our minds from when we were younger right through to when we are adults. Some people have bad memories and cannot remember every single memory but others can remember everything. Memories get brought up every now and then when people around us talk about things that happened that we know about. Other times when we browse through our photo albums you'd remember a memory from a particular event from our lives we can visualize it in our minds. And can close our eyes and see images from that day memories can be totally forgotten by memory loss that happens to some people and others choose to force to forget somethings. For some people some memories can be of sad times or of a bad experience so they choose to not talk about it. Memories are in our mind and are useful when we need to talk or write and remember something to help us in our current daily lives. When you think of memories you can even remember the exact things you wore or what was said or who was there or the exact date and time and place. Memories are usually moments which we cherish and love to think about special days such as birthdays, Easter, Christmas, weddings etc. the days we celebrated for various things memories can be kept in albums or scrapbooks containing special gifts and things to remember which we find to be of sentimental value. Postcards, birthday cards, photos etc. and other items we keep over the years looking back at them seeing our achievements and success we managed to get through our hard work and dedication.
It can be rather difficult for some others to remember memories because they might have experienced something really sad or bad which they want to forget forever. However sometimes in life it gets remembered or someone talks about which triggers that memory which often can make them remember the hurt and pain they experienced. Memories can be a time of sadness also because that's life the reality sad and bad things do happen to people. Memories can be short or can be long depending on the person and all what they remember or forget. For other people they might get amnesia and not remember anything from their lives or get dementia and just forget every memory. Then people have to keep reminding them about that particular memory from their life so memories can be pleasant and hard to live with.
Memories are moments we relive every time we miss something from our past we want to remind ourselves of because it was such a wonderful memory. We can think back to a day and time we were maybe the happiest in our life a time that we can relive over and over again. Its so special and we hold it close in our hearts we often think about it now and again and it comes up in conversations.
Chapter 21: Beliefs And Dreams
Beliefs And Dreams
Everyone has their own beliefs some people who are the same culture, nationality and/or religion would have the same or very similar beliefs. The human mind stores our beliefs what we believe in from everyday simple things to our ideas on life and how we feel towards topics and situations. There are very important beliefs we choose to never forget and we often remind ourselves in our thoughts about them so we don't forget. Over the years people will think about faith and religion and maybe you might even question your religion that you grew up in whether you were forced and it was someone who was a volunteer to be in that religion. People turn to beliefs because they were possibly also growing up in families where there was religion and so it stuck with you. Now that your older you also have chosen those beliefs to follow and teach your children maybe. Sometimes people get confused about beliefs and religions because something might make complete sense and other things might not make sense. For me personally I remember looking at many religions and beliefs growing up christian in a christian home we were taught the christian way however when I got older like many other people I began asking questions and learning about other religions.
It's okay to look out there and see if there’s some other beliefs that you can also follow because your just searching for answers and maybe what your beliefs and religion is now might not give you the answers or the way of life you want or need. Even though it seems like the easy way to just follow or you might feel that you have to be that way because its your parents and family you don’t want to cause a problem and make them get angry. Over time you will find something that you believe in a belief system that really works for you so don’t feel scared or worried people need to search and learn and venture out there delving into many things before they find something that works for them. If people really love you they’ll accept what path and belief you now follow and if they truly care about you they’ll support you and help you on your way to becoming what you choose.
The multicultural society we live in there’s so many different religions and beliefs out there so much to choose some so whilst we’re exploring into our self-discovery meeting and spending time with different people and places might help you find out who you really are and maybe you’ll also meet some wonderful people on your journey to learn from. It doesn’t mean that you have to be in that religion or beliefs for the rest of your life. People change all the time as they grow you’ll find that there might be something that helps you learn, something that helps you grow and something that helps you heal. So it might come from many beliefs and religions not just one so be open minded to seeing about other beliefs.
Dreams
When we go to sleep at night most of us have dreams which are like watching a show reel seeing things, places, people and much more. They seem so real because we are fast asleep as a human being the mind often thinks even during sleep because during the day or night we go to sleep thinking about different things that happened that day. So it plays on our mind and when we fall asleep we seem to have a dream because of what happened that day or because we were worried or scared about something so we might have a nightmare depending on who you are and how you deal with things. Our dreams could make us wake up with a fright and/or the next morning we might not even remember what we dreamed about.
And other times we can remember what we dream about there are people whose dreams come true within time. We've all heard the saying dreams can come true and yes they do how many times we've heard about people having dreams and within time they come true whilst they're asleep having seen and heard things like a gift or ability. As well as those whose dreams are to do a certain occupation/career and it came true without dreams in life how can one look forward to something? kind of like having no faith or hope without that you got nothing how will your dreams manifest into reality with believing in your dreams. When asleep dreaming the mind can relax and the person and can go to many place interacting with different people and things dreams at time are telling us something, maybe its things we had on our mind that day, sometimes might it be a warning to see to something urgently or simply a pleasant visual dream where you can have a peaceful sleep being entertained.
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