A History of Matrimonial Institutions (Vol. 1-3). George Elliott Howard
buy her release; and in this case "a restoration of the marriage bond is impossible." Again, for certain specified faults of the husband, she is granted a separation through fasch, or judicial decree.[756] On the other hand, by li'an, or solemn oath before the cadi, a husband is able to put away the spouse whom he believes to be unfaithful;[757] but in general the right of the man to reject the woman without assigning any cause whatever is absolutely unrestrained. The great majority of divorces among Moslem peoples take the form of talâq, or repudiation. It is only necessary for the husband who is tired of his wife to say to her "mutállaka," "Thou art dismissed."[758] In harmony with the old Arabian custom the procedure by talâq may consist of a "triple declaration" or three successive divorces. After the first pronouncement of the formula the repudiated woman remains three months in her harem at the man's cost, and he is at liberty to take her back if he will. Indeed, a single tender glance or word of concession is sufficient to restore the marriage. Should he not reclaim her until the specified term is passed, he may then do so only in case she has not already taken a new husband, and by paying her a "second time the full amount of the morning-gift as stipulated at their marriage." A second or even a third separation from the same wife may be had by repetition of this process; but the third declaration, unlike the other two, is irrevocable, definitively dissolving the marriage bond.[759]
Among a great many peoples, even those comparatively little advanced in general culture, the husband is permitted to divorce his wife only for definite reasons.[760] The causes of legal divorce most constantly recurring are adultery and sterility. In a great many cases divorce is absolutely forbidden after a child, usually a son, is born. It should be carefully noted that many of the alleged examples of divorce on the ground of sterility are, strictly speaking, not divorces at all; but rather illustrations of the so-called "proof-marriages" so often met with in all parts of the world. Not until the term of probation is "blessed" by the arrival of offspring is the "marriage" in such cases regarded as complete, though this may not always be the implied condition. With the proof-marriages are sometimes described as identical in character the "time-marriages" found among many peoples; but this form of union is, properly speaking, usually a real marriage not dependent for its consummation upon the birth of a child, being stipulated in advance for a certain term.[761] Besides the two leading grounds of divorce already mentioned, many others, some of them trivial, are prescribed by the laws of various peoples. Such are mistreatment, deformity, laziness, desertion, and incompatibility of temper. Sometimes the consent of the chief or other public authority is requisite. So, among the Hottentots, a man may divorce his wife only "upon shewing such cause as shall be satisfactory to the men of the kraal where they live;"[762] and among the aborigines of Victoria, as already seen, a childless wife may be dismissed for serious misconduct only when the sanction of the tribal chief is obtained.[763] By Chinese law divorce must be granted in case of any of the numerous impediments[764] to marriage; or when the wife is guilty of adultery. For that offense the aggrieved husband may kill the offending wife and her paramour, if he catch them in flagrante delicto. But should the woman not be slain, she is punished, and the husband may drive her away or even sell her as a concubine, provided he has not pandered to the crime or does not sell her to the guilty man.[765] Furthermore, a marriage may be dissolved by mutual agreement;[766] and the husband is entitled to a divorce when the wife strikes him, is addicted to drunkenness or opium smoking, has been defiled before marriage, or when she leaves his house against his will.[767] Besides all these grounds, established by statute or recent usage, Confucius allows the husband a divorce for any of seven faults of the wife: barrenness, wantonness, inattention to parents-in-law, talkativeness, theft, jealousy, and inveterate disease such as leprosy.[768] But these grounds will not always warrant a separation. "They may be outweighed by particular merits of the woman or by special circumstances. If the wife has mourned three years for the husband's parents; if the family has grown rich during the marriage; or if the wife has no longer relatives to receive her, then the seven assigned grounds fail, the divorce is not only forbidden but void, and the husband must retain his wife."[769] This is not the only wise and righteous provision of the Chinese law, however despotic as a rule may be the husband's power. Normally the wife cannot sue for divorce; still practically she enjoys the right of separation in several important contingencies. Under judicial approval, for instance, she may release herself from the marriage bond in case of three[770] years' desertion without word from her husband. So likewise, when she suffers grave insult from the husband's parents, she may return to her own family, reclaim her dotal gift, and demand a contribution for her support.[771]
In modern Japan divorce is regulated according to the principles of western law; but formerly the husband's power was governed, as in China, by the rules of Confucius.[772] Furthermore, in spirit the Aztec law of divorce bears a striking resemblance to that of China. Only in special cases, not now understood, had the woman a right of separation; and the husband could put away his wife only for definite reasons, such as sterility and certain defects of character, as when she proved herself careless, impatient, lazy, or quarrelsome. Divorce, however, was discouraged; and even when a legal reason was alleged, it could not be effected without a judicial decree. The decree did not declare the separation; it merely allowed the plaintiff in the matter "to do what he should find good." Thus permission was given for divorce; but the judge avoided pronouncing the separation in direct words.[773]
5. Finally, in further illustration of the endless variety of popular customs, it must be noted that among many peoples the wife also has the right of divorce. Often, as already seen, she may leave her husband at pleasure or on the slightest pretext. It needs but a glance at the usages of the American Indians in this regard to perceive that the lot of the married woman among barbarous or even savage tribes is not always so dark as it is frequently painted;[774] and many similar proofs elsewhere exist.[775] Among the inland Columbians, according to Bancroft, "either party may dissolve the marriage at will."[776] A similar rule prevails with the Moxos of South America, the tribes of California, as well as among the Iroquois and their neighbors.[777] "If a Bonak wife gets up and leaves the man, he has no claim ever after on her;"[778] and, according to Schoolcraft, when the Navajo woman marries, "she becomes free, and may leave her husband for sufficient cause."[779] The Guanan[780] and Guatemalan[781] wife is equally privileged; and the Sioux and other Dakota women are often notoriously independent, even beating their husbands for unfaithfulness, and for this or other just cause returning to their own kindred.[782] Sometimes the wife has the right of divorce only on definite grounds, which may differ from or be the same as those permitted to the husband.[783] Often the reasons which satisfy the moral sense of the community are very slight; at other times they are grave and few in number. Among the Shans, "should the husband take to drinking or otherwise misconducting himself, the woman has the right to turn him adrift, and to retain all the goods and money of the partnership."[784] In "Eastern Central Africa divorce may be effected if the husband neglects to sew his wife's clothes, or if the partners do not please each other."[785] Theoretically among the Athenians the woman could demand a divorce for mistreatment, "in which case she had merely to announce her wish to the archons;"[786] while the Kafir wife "who is beaten or not provided with sufficient food and clothes is entitled to return to her parents."[787] In fact, the right of the woman to repudiate her husband for mistreatment is alleged to be the general rule according to negro custom.[788] Even by modern Mohammedan legislation "divorce may, in certain cases, take place at the instance of the wife, and, if cruelly treated or neglected by her husband, she has the right of demanding divorce by authority of justice."[789]
II. THE FORM OF DIVORCE
The form of divorce, like the rules relating to the right and its conditions, varies greatly among the races of mankind. Very frequently, usually among the lowest peoples, it takes place without any ceremony.[790] Sometimes, however, the procedure is fixed by law or custom. A symbolical act is occasionally sufficient, as with the east African Wazaramo, where the husband by way of divorce hands the wife a piece of holcus reed, on receiving which she must at once leave