A History of Matrimonial Institutions (Vol. 1-3). George Elliott Howard
in as much as the breach of their pledge is worth."[867] Even with this reading it is just possible that the money restored was the arrha; and that betrothal sureties were required mainly to secure damage in case the bride were not actually transferred. A law of Ælfred likewise shows the practice of taking surety; but in this case also it seems uncertain whether the pledges were given for the payment of the bride-money; for damage on failure to surrender the bride as a maid; or for both bride-price and damage combined, though the last hypothesis seems the most probable. "If a betrothed woman commit adultery, if she be of ceorlish degree, let a penalty of sixty shillings be paid to the betrothal sureties, and let it be in live-stock, things of value; and in it let no (unfree) man be given." If the woman be worth six hundred or twelve hundred shillings wergeld, the penalty is fixed at one hundred or one hundred and twenty shillings respectively.[868] But another law of Ælfred seems to reveal more clearly the second or transitional phase in the history of the wedding contract; for the bride-price is paid to the woman. It provides that in case a man sell his daughter into servitude, and the purchaser "allow his son to cohabit with her, let him (the son) marry her: and let him see that she have raiment, and that which is the worth of her maidhood, that is the weotuma; let him give her that."[869]
The transition from this last-named form of contract to a third and still more liberal one was easy and natural. Already in the tenth century the beweddung had become a merely "formal contract," the wed, wette, Treugelöbniss, wadium, or fides facta of the early laws.[870] In this case there was not even one-sided fulfilment through payment of the arrha, which in the form of wine-money was merely promised to the guardian;[871] but instead the agreement or convention was accompanied by sureties to pay the weotuma to the bride, and by a solemn act which created the obligation, and was therefore essential to the contract. Originally this solemn act consisted in giving and taking the straw (festuca) on the part of the bride and bridegroom. Instead of the straw, other objects were sometimes employed, such as a piece of cloth, an arrow, a number of gloves, and the like.[872] The oath or vow was also substituted for the solemn act; and, particularly in the later Middle Ages, the most popular symbol by which the contract was closed was a "weakened" form of the oath, the Handschlag, or hand-fasting, so famous in connection with the history of English "secret" or "irregular" marriages.[873] It should be noted that after the betrothal assumes the form of the wed, the weotuma ceases to be of real importance and becomes a gift to the bride of little value; whereas now the object of real concern in the convention is the morgengifu, or morning-gift.[874] This was originally a small voluntary gift to the bride on the morning following the nuptials; but as the weotuma decreased the morning-gift increased in importance. It became customary to grant them both in the same instrument at the betrothal; so, at length, they were merged and became a regular legal provision for the widow. Such was the Lombard quarta[875] and the Frankish tertia;[876] the Norman douaire, and the dos ad ostium ecclesiae of Glanville, the predecessors of the modern English dower.[877]
This third phase of the beweddung may be clearly discerned in the English laws of the pre-Norman period, and seems to have been the prevailing form after the beginning of the tenth century. The following formulary, dating perhaps from the reign of Eadmund or Æthelstan, besides its peculiar interest as being the earliest English betrothal ritual extant, is an excellent example of the formal contract, though some of its provisions are not clear:
"1. If a man desire to betroth a maiden or a widow, and it so be agreeable to her and her friends, then it is right that the bridegroom, according to the law of God, and according to the customs of the world, first promise and give a 'wed' to those who are her 'foresprecas,' that he desire her in such wise that he will keep her, according to God's law, as a husband shall his wife: and let his friends guarantee that.
"2. After that, it is to be known to whom the 'foster-laen'[878] belongs: let the bridegroom again give a 'wed' for this: and let his friends guarantee it.
"3. Then, after that, let the bridegroom declare what he will grant her, in case she choose his will, and what he will grant her, if she live longer than he.
"4. If it be so agreed, then it is right that she be entitled to half the property, and to all, if they have children in common, except she again choose a husband.[879]
"5. Let him confirm all that which he has promised with a 'wed;' and let his friends guarantee that.
"6. If they then are agreed in everything, then let the kinsmen take it in hand, and betroth their kinswoman to wife, and to a righteous life, to him who desired her, and let him take possession of the 'bohr'[880] who has control of the 'wed.'
"7. But if a man desire to lead her out of the land, into another thane's land, then it will be advisable for her that her friends have an agreement that no wrong shall be done to her; and if she commit a fault, that they may be nearest in the 'bot,' if she have not whereof she can make 'bot.'"[881]
The form of betrothal here described is that of the wed. The foster-laen, or wine-money, a substitute for the arrha, is not paid down, but it is merely promised to the guardian; while the morning-gift—"in case she choose his will"—and the weotuma—"if she live longer than he"—are the important elements, and these belong to the bride.[882]
Such was the form of beweddung generally prevailing among the Germanic nations about the time of the Norman Conquest. It had been reached, as we have seen, only through several successive phases of development, not sharply defined, but overlapping each other. In the first stage, falling mainly or wholly within the prehistoric era, the betrothal is a real contract, according to which there is two-sided fulfilment. The payment of the price and the delivery of the bride go hand in hand.[883] In the second stage, existing at any rate from the time of Tacitus onward, the transaction is still in form a real contract of sale, but there is only one-sided fulfilment. The purchase price is paid to the guardian, but the tradition of the bride is postponed. Next a solemn act through payment of a nominal sum, or arrha, is deemed sufficient, the payment of the actual price, or weotuma, being reserved for the nuptials, when, often, it is paid, not to the guardian, but to the bride, disclosing to us the genesis of the dower. The beweddung is still a real contract, but not a contract of sale. Finally, even one-sided fulfilment is no longer required. Nothing is paid and nothing is transferred at the betrothal, which now consists of promises and sureties, accompanied by a solemn act which engendered the obligation. The real contract of sale has been transformed into a merely formal contract, which provides for future fulfilment on the part of both guardian and bridegroom.
Let us now turn to the second act in marriage, the gifta, or actual "giving" of the bride to the husband. Here there is no lack of ceremony and solemn phrases. Legally the gifta is a distinct transaction subsequent to the betrothal in the order of time.[884] Very generally in German lands late autumn or early winter was the favorite season for the celebration of marriages. So also, during the waxing moon, a Tuesday or a Thursday was preferred for the wedding day.[885] As among the Greeks, Romans, and Hindus,[886] the nuptial ceremony appears to have consisted of three parts: the solemn tradition, the joyous home-bringing of the bride, and the festal initiation into the wedded life in the bridegroom's house.[887] Of these the gifta, or tradition, is most important, and it takes place in the home of the bride.[888] The father or guardian by blood takes the lead in the proceedings, and is thus the prototype of the modern priest or magistrate. The first act is the solemn surrender of the bride together with the symbols of the husband's power and protection: the sword, the hat, and mantle, or other objects of similar significance. Then, on reception of the bride, the bridegroom pays the weotuma, or delivers the charter providing for the morning-gift or other allowance for the widow; and, at the same time, makes symbolical assertion of the power which he thus acquires over the wife: for example, by treading upon her foot—a custom, says Sohm, which at later time finds a more refined expression in the delivery of a shoe or slipper.[889] From this arose the belief, still existing in some parts of Germany, that the bride will rule the family, if before the altar, after the blessing is pronounced by the priest, she places her foot upon that of the bridegroom. "Who carries the slipper rules."[890]
A point which requires special notice is the relative legal importance of the beweddung