The Digital Charisma. Jina Slova
to them. Remarkably, they receive the same rewards as those who are obsessively striving for growth.
In upcoming chapters, I will share insights on how to transition into this appealing third category and become a true source of inspiration for your followers.
So…
My dearest kings and queens, my beloved souls, I want to discuss the essence of motivation in blogging and how to become a true source of inspiration for your subscribers.
Let’s clarify one thing: motivation and inspiration are not the same! Motivation stems from external sources; it is an artificially created tool that only works when we choose to activate it. However, you don’t need motivation if you possess a strong will to live the life of your dreams!
My students frequently ask, “How can I stay motivated to blog? How can I find the drive to post new content every day?” My response is always the same: “You don’t have to! Allow others to live the life you envision. Let them receive gifts and collaborations from amazing brands. Let them build vast audiences and bask in the spotlight! It seems, from where I stand, that you may not be entirely ready for that dream star life. For now, embracing a simpler, more ordinary existence may feel more comfortable for you.”
Because if you truly understand your purpose, you will never need to remind yourself to stay motivated. You will rise each day brimming with energy, crafting incredible content from dawn till dusk. You’ll explore every app for editing photos and ask your friends to share your work, striving to impress even just one new follower each day. And here’s the magic: that one follower will transform into a thousand, then ten thousand, and eventually to a hundred thousand.
Motivation is one of the greatest myths of our days. Inspiration, however, is what truly matters! Inspiration compels you to read my book right now, and it fuels the creative ideas you conceive for your blog. Lists of blogging themes have become incredibly popular; some bloggers even sell them! But do you really need someone else’s themes? Another’s blog? Another’s life?
Inspiration is an inexhaustible source of energy. It is what makes your soul sing and propels you to leap out of bed in the middle of the night to create.
Here’s a useful tip: if an idea strikes you before bedtime, make sure to jot it down! Nothing lingers in short-term memory after sleep, which is why we bloggers always keep a notebook by our bedside to capture those fleeting thoughts.
You need to be constantly inspired—this truly matters! Social media can serve as a wellspring of inspiration for weeks on end. To become a successful blogger, it's essential to cultivate both inspiration and motivation. There will be times when inspiration alone isn’t enough, such as when embarking on a long-term project like writing a book. These endeavors can stretch over several weeks or even months, and in these cases, you can't rely solely on inspiration—you need steadfast motivation.
The most effective form of motivation often comes from outside yourself; it is a tool created by others. When faced with a substantial project, it's easy to feel small and daunted by its scope. In these moments, motivation, clear deadlines, and a vivid vision of your goals become your guiding lights.
What questions can you pose to yourself to inspire others? This is vital! Every day, I reflect on the same questions, regardless of where I stand on my journey to success, my current location, or the size of my audience—whether it’s 7 people or 500.
– Who am I?
– Why am I doing this?
– Will I continue tomorrow?
– What is my purpose?
– How does what I do benefit others?
You know, if my endeavors were only for myself, I could simply enjoy life—after all, we’re human, and we often seek the easier path. But we have a mission—a grand purpose! We are here on Earth for a reason: to connect with one another.
Currently, the theme of leadership on social media is more crucial than ever, and its significance will only continue to grow. Trust me, this topic will prove valuable in the future. I’m bringing it up now so that you can stay one step ahead.
Inspire others through your personal example. When you advocate for something, you must also embody it. If we desire change in the world around us, we must become the catalyst for that change. We should aim to be the center of our reality—the pivot point around which everything revolves.
You don’t need to be an expert in every aspect; that’s not a requirement for a leader on social media. In fact, people don’t expect perfection or expertise; they seek a genuine, powerful surge of energy from us.
What is our mission?
To inspire others to experience positive feelings!
You can embrace this moment right now—simply allow joy and happiness to blossom in the center of your chest or at your third eye. Just take a moment to experience how it feels; envision yourself as a perfectly charged battery! As the sensation intensifies, you’ll know you’re ready to connect with your audience.
Many of my students express doubt, saying, "I don’t know what my talent is; I feel untalented." To those who feel this way, I have a simple life hack: share the things that inspire you. If you've come across a book, an article, or anything that sparks joy, share it with your loved ones—not merely to accumulate likes, but to spread the love!
Infuse every post and endeavor you engage in on social media with that love.
Share love, and you will receive love in return.
Don’t craft your posts solely for the sake of likes; write them with intention for your mother, grandmother, or friend. Tell them how a particular book or article inspired you. If you have discovered something valuable and wonderful, it’s likely that it can resonate with someone else too.
By sharing what inspires you, you become a conduit of inspiration. Becoming this transmitter means drawing closer to your own source of creativity. When the Universe sees you as a vessel of inspiration, it tends to shower you with positivity. If you contribute value to the world, the world will ensure that you are well taken care of, allowing you to continue sharing that value.
So how can we be truly helpful? Being useful means being a giver. Picture this: I walk down the street, feeling good, smiling and uplifting those around me. I’m radiating energy. I share my happiness with the hope that my followers feel it too!
How do you become a source of inspiration? It’s simpler than you might think! When I prepare for a livestream or broadcast, I close my eyes and visualize a light within me. The size of this light—whether small or vast—depends on my mood at that moment. If I’m feeling gentle and affectionate, I might just have a soft glow, like a candle’s flame. Yet, when something wonderful happens, I can imagine that light blazing brightly through me.
My inner energy is so well-honed (and you can cultivate this skill, too!) that even the tiniest spark can shine powerfully. Just nurture a little fire within yourself—that's the secret! You, too, can embrace this glow before your live broadcasts or when recording stories.
CHAPTER 2:
The Essence of Your Digital Charisma
The queen is thriving. She effortlessly governs the realm, exuding beauty through all that she creates with her hands and soul. A true queen never forgets her identity. Today, my beautiful kings and queens, I invite you to tap into that royal energy residing within you! Look at prominent influencers; they carry themselves with the aura of stars, captivating their audiences who greet them like royalty.
Begin crafting your royal digital life right now! Everything you do can reflect your regal nature—even your everyday shower. Picture yourself standing beneath a tropical waterfall, surrounded by fluttering butterflies. Feel the refreshing mist and the gentle droplets of water caressing your smooth skin…
When you embody a royal spirit, others will perceive you as such. Emerging from your shower doesn’t just signify stepping out as an ordinary person; you transform into a radiant wild queen. After such a magical experience, your posts will be filled with enchantment!