The Digital Charisma. Jina Slova
your reflection in your front camera and embrace that magical feeling! You have the power to dwell in this world of your dreams as often as you desire. Remember, 80% of people already live within dreams and fantasies, but what are those dreams?
– “Someday, everything will improve.”
– “Someday, my partner will be faithful.”
– “By summer, I will definitely lose weight.”
– “I’ll start on Monday.”
This brings me to my favorite concept: the Pareto Principle. A mere 20% of individuals lead the remaining 80%. Only 20% of influencers rise to the top because 80% remain entrapped in dull, gray dreams. Yet, the 20% of leading figures venture into dreamscapes that words cannot capture, nor can any film or social media image convey their beauty.
D R E A M B I G!
Let me make you unstoppable!
This is how I interpret the Pareto Principle as it relates to charisma and leadership in social media. Only 20% of people guide the other 80%, who are eager to be led—even those who dream of becoming significant influencers themselves. I have applied the Pareto Principle for years, and it has never failed me.
Even a single minute spent in this energetically charged state can rejuvenate your hormonal system. By shifting your consciousness, you can harness the power of just one minute. Your brain will follow your commands.
Imagine telling your brain just before your magical shower: “For me, this one minute feels like 40 minutes in the most luxurious tropical spa.” Your brain may initially resist, bewildered by the concept.
BUT you are more than just a brain.
You are stronger than your thoughts.
You are the embodiment of beauty!
You are a charismatic, magnificent queen!
Embracing Your Inner Warrior
You declare with conviction: “Stop! I am so much more than I thought! I embody soul, body, and spirit. They exist to serve my will. My soul and spirit are my driving forces.” When you unite your spirit and soul, your mind cannot help but surrender.
The brain is merely a tool for rational thought and reasoning. I command its power to fulfill the mission of my soul. I came into this world with a purpose: to enrich, elevate, and brighten the lives of others. This fuels my vitality—I need that energy to inspire vast audiences!
With the strength of your spirit, you guide your mind. Life can often feel like a grand, albeit serious, jest. You gently but firmly tell your brain, with a sweet smile gracing your lips: “This one minute will feel like a day in the most luxurious spa.” As you wash your face, you will feel rejuvenated. If you dedicate a moment to your beauty in this way every day, soon you will be astonished at how radiant you look. Remain steadfast and embrace the essence of a warrior.
The warrior's stance transcends gender. You are neither simply woman nor man; you are a human being! You embody the spirit and soul, a universal representation of all that is magical, beautiful, and extraordinary on this planet. This warrior mentality forms your inner core, allowing you to stand tall and confident, even in the face of negativity from others—thoughts your mind, your servant, may resist.
However, adopting the warrior position isn’t about engaging in battles. When I say, "Embrace the warrior within," I do not imply contention. We are sovereigns in our own realms. If you embody the essence of a queen, there are no competitors for your throne! Of course, you will need this warrior mindset during interviews, discussions with influential figures, or moments when you need to assert yourself—you will instinctively recognize that power.
For me, it all begins with this realization: first and foremost, I am a writer. I articulate my thoughts beautifully and meaningfully, especially since I envision myself as a goddess. Every word that flows from my lips is precious, akin to diamonds cascading from my mouth. Once I embraced this self-perception, I understood that I cannot merely speak or write for the sake of it; everything I express is infused with significance. When you carry yourself with dignity, others will reflect that same respect back to you. This is another layer of our understanding of charisma.
CHAPTER 3:
Crafting Charismatic Posts for Social Media Stars
In this chapter, my beloved kings and queens, we will delve into the essence of leadership messaging. What should we remember when we communicate as leaders on social media? We know all too well that people have needs. To effectively engage with our audience, we must appeal to these needs, inviting them to listen and follow our message. If your words and communication fail to resonate with the hearts of your audience, they will likely go unheard.
So, to which audience needs can we appeal? First and foremost, we must connect with their experiences and empathy. Experience and empathy are fundamental human needs and core qualities of our nature. It’s inherently human to empathize, to relate to another—especially the hero!
Remember, you are a superhero!
People naturally identify with the heroes of your posts, the protagonists in films, celebrities and the stars of your videos. Keep these moments at the forefront of your mind, allowing this understanding to become second nature. Once it does, you won’t need to consciously think about how to apply these principles; they will manifest effortlessly in your posts. Your subconscious mind readily absorbs all information, even if it feels like you’ve missed a thought. Your conscious mind has rigid frameworks, while your subconscious is attuned to everything.
What other aspects can we leverage to lead others? We can tap into well-being, another fundamental human need. We are consistently aware of our identities, our appearances, and how others perceive us. While comparison can lead to suffering, it can also bring comfort. Through your interactions, people often seek to fill voids in their lives—imagining what has not yet materialized.
What other needs are essential? One is the need for knowledge. Why do you eagerly tune in to my broadcasts, listen to my podcasts, and read my books? You seek knowledge from me. Humans are inherently inquisitive, and our thirst for understanding persists from birth to our final days. We are drawn to the world, its mysteries, and its challenges. By aligning your communication with this desire for knowledge, you fill gaps within your audience, allowing them to explore the unknown through you.
What else can we explore together? Spirituality. While it has historically been a challenge for individuals to articulate this desire, recent years have seen a rise in conversations about spirituality. People have become more open to recognizing a higher essence beyond mere materialism. There exists a longing to connect with what is intangible. When you address these topics, your audience will intuitively resonate with your message.
Lastly, you can engage openly with people about self-awareness. By appealing to their desire for self-discovery, you can inspire a wide audience. The journey of self-awareness is profoundly abstract and uniquely individual for each person. By inviting them on this exploration, you can foster deeper connections and empower their personal growth.
Self-awareness is the journey of discovering one's unique place in life. Regardless of how you seek to address another person's challenges, your efforts will ultimately be beneficial for them. This is a topic that holds the potential for healing and growth, as the subconscious mind tends to reject any knowledge that may be detrimental.
You may not have expected to encounter such insights in a book about social media, but throughout all of my training sessions, I consistently delve deeper than the surface-level content promised. I believe in fostering a profound dialogue with you, one that transcends the conventional boundaries of discussion. You can witness this depth in all of my books and articles.
And speaking of articles, let’s explore further…
Creating Charismatic Texts
How do you craft words that captivate and enchant? Texts so charismatic that they position you as a leader in the realm of blogging? As a writer deeply immersed in the art of writing—boasting my own unique teaching method—I often