Impossible is Nothing. Julia Belova
gain positive life experience.
You can’t become healthy believing you’re sick. You need to start thinking “healthy” thoughts, then you are sure to get well easily and quickly.
What could possibly give more power to your thoughts? Your emotions! I suppose you’ve seen people act when led by emotions: dying of shame, flushing with anger, miserable in grief or beaming with happiness and love.
Positive thoughts and emotions produce great results. Your thoughts have to correspond to your words and deeds in order to make your seeds of thought grow into big, strong trees. You need to put all your positive emotions in thinking about your goal. Imagine what it would be like if all your dreams came true.
If you are sick, sow a seed of health and picture yourself in ten years absolutely healthy, riding a bike with your friends, for instance. Try to evoke all the happy emotions you can associate getting well with: laugh, rejoice, squeal with excitement! Try to feel healthy and happy about it.
Sow a seed of friendship and love, if you had a fight with someone you care about. Imagine yourself hugging your friend or someone you love. Feel all the love you have got towards this person!
That’s how it works!
I hope now you’ll try to think of only good things like health, happiness, support, comfort, help, friendship and love, won’t you?
But what are you going to do with all the negative thoughts? Seems like it’s impossible to cast them away, they always come back. I want to give you some advice on dealing with them.
Advice #1. Do only good things
Think of all the good stuff you can do for other people, for animals, for nature and the whole world around you. A whole lot of them! You can start with something small as every small thing matters, remember.
Try to think positive and do something good every single day, it’s not that hard. You only gain by making someone’s life happier. Even a kind word makes so much difference! You do remember the great power of words, don’t you? Start with your family. Do you hug them a lot? Do you take good care of them or thank them for taking care of you? Do you ever smile to them and say how much you love them? Do it! Make a cup of tea for your mom, smile to a crying child, call your friend and ask how he’s doing. Helping others is so easy!
People hurt others because they feel unhappy. They often lack love and joy. Life is already full of tough moments and hardships, why complicate it? Be the light that leads the way and gives comfort.
Don’t be demanding, don’t expect anything from anyone. Be ready to be the first one to share, to help. This way you become much happier, within and without.
Once upon a time an old sage revealed one of the main laws of life to his son.
“There’s a struggle going on within every person which is similar to two wolves fighting,” said the old man, “The first wolf represents evil: jealousy, regret, egotism, ambitions, lies, hatred, anger, fear, irritation, laziness. The second wolf stands for peace, love, hope, truth, faith, joy, friendship, happiness, sincerity.”
His little son was deeply moved by his father’s words.
“Which wolf wins in the end?” the boy asked.
The old man smiled and said, “It’s always the one you feed.”
You need to form your own attitude towards everything around you. Which wolf are you going to feed? What seeds are you going to sow and then reap later on?
Advice #2. Don’t harm yourself
All your evil thoughts and deeds harm you more than anyone else, remember!
They leave deep imprints on your mind. They are to blame for all your misfortunes. Thoughts are incipient actions.
You’ll gain control over your own thoughts, if you keep in mind this simple rule. Why would you want to act against yourself?
In case of doubt, take your time, count to three, relax. Then make your decision and act.
This piece of advice is especially helpful if you are under pressure, being criticized or offended. Don’t behave like the one who insults you. Don’t show any aggression, because it is a seed of anger. Everyone has to deal with his own aggression or violence and all the consequences eventually. So take it easy. Listen and count to three. The best remedy is… gratitude, believe it or not!
When a situation like this unfolds, keep in mind, that the one who is trying to hurt you is thus planting his own garden. It seems a trifle, but moments like this determine our future! A seed of aggression can grow into a huge tree of offence and criticism.
Once a man found himself in heaven. He noted that all the people wandering about seemed kind, happy and joyful. He liked what he saw.
“May I have a look at hell, too?” he asked the angel.
“Ok, follow me.”
As they arrived, the man noticed that hell looked exactly the same as heaven did, except, people seemed angry, irritated, unhappy.
“But it looks exactly like heaven! Why is everyone so glum and upset?” he asked.
“Because they all think heaven is better,” replied the angel.
Make sure to appreciate what you’ve got, don’t crave for something you haven’t.
Advice #3. Make up your mind to always do good things, say only good words and think only positive
Of course, it’s easier said than done.
But anger and bad temper are usually useless in achieving goals. On the contrary, they distract and cause stress.
Bad things happen anyway, such is life. They evoke hatred and cause pain, sadness, disappointment. They make us say awful things and behave the way we later regret. We don’t like the people we become in such situations, do we?
Everyone is different. We don’t feel the same way about common notions, such as good and evil, right and wrong, mine and yours, sympathy and antipathy. Each of us possesses a unique inner world. Let no one influence your own.
Believe in the power of your mind and words. Don’t mix up someone’s ideas and notions with your own. Don’t try to follow anyone’s tastes. Be the master of your own mind. It doesn’t mean you’ve got to promote your opinion and make everyone share your ideas. Of course, you might meet like-minded people, who hold the same views. Those who don’t are of no importance to you.
There’s one more important thing I want to share. If you do something bad, and it bothers you, use an “antidote”: do something good to make up for it. But it works only if your intentions are truly kind and sincere. The impact of your positive action has to match, in degree, the bad one you’ve committed. You have to compensate in order to protect yourself from the destructive influence of your mistake, do you get it?
If you don’t regret what you’ve done and it doesn’t bother you, then so be it.
If you make a mistake, you correct it.
If you do something wrong and feel fine about it, then let it be.
If you’re not sure about how any deed makes you feel, then ask your heart, it never lies. Or you could also ask someone you trust.
It’s your life and your own lessons to learn.
It’s going to be your unique experience of the world and of yourself to gain.
Two friends once met. They used to fight and argue all the time. This time the elder friend hit the younger. The younger one took offence and left.